Change, shift, reposition - are all synonyms of transition. Associated Banc-Corp. CEO Robert Gallagher says, "Change is inevitable - except from a vending machine." How valid.
Our generation grew up in an age of which the world realizes the power of change. And change requires both courage and intelligence. One strong example would be the "change" President Obama urged to the people of United States, and the world, during his inauguration two years back. But my points today are not about politics.
"If you can't control these changes, welcome and embrace them." - anonymous.
Recently, I have been exposed to many circumstances that are in a process of transition. For instance, new leadership at my current church, and a new director to the campus ministry that I am affiliated with. For next year, I will have a new Hall Director at my residence hall, plus an entirely new group of staff/colleagues. On top of that, the advisor for the International Students Association has also decided to move on in her profession, leaving us to look for another potential wing man (or woman).
While awaiting these transitions to take place, I am also dealing with my personal development, academically and professionally. I have just accepted a new on-campus position, and as I'm moving along my senior year, I am also looking around for internships and possible job opportunities after graduation.
As for personal growth, I began to slowly "co-support" my family financially and spiritually. I see myself having to fund the rest of my undergraduate studies and probably grad school as well. With maturity comes responsibility. As the eldest child of the house, I also learn to start taking care of my younger siblings' education progress.
I believe many peers of my age are also facing similar situations here. Stepping up in role is also a part of the transition.
Like mentioned, change requires us to be courageous and to be mentally strong. It takes a lot audacity to stay eager about the near future. However, I personally think that one would be able to grow stronger and more mature through the transitions he or she has to face in life.
It is like putting on a new coat of paint on an old wall.
It is not always easy to accept new things or different leadership. Yet, since we all grew up in a life that is always in flux, it is almost programmed in us to somehow accept changes without much objections; it is only a matter of time - some people take it easy, some find it hard to adapt to changes overnight.
It then dawns on me that college has become a perfect medium to learn about such adaptation. Students begin to take charge of their own lives while living away from homes. This situation allows them to face and resolve challenges on their own. Something that every college student must have experienced is being responsible of their daily schedules.
Without the nagging from the parents, one may find it formidable to handle their own routine and social life in general. Hence, college becomes the time when students get to decide what they want to do for themselves. In the process, students are self-trained to be flexible and capable of handling some unforeseen circumstances.
As a result, one who has been through the college experience may have greater permeability when it comes to dealing with transitions. Now it all makes sense to me.
Though it may require more effort and time to get used to a change, I suppose change is good. While we try to get the new leaders to fit into the old, worn shoes, don't forget to tighten or loosening the shoe laces accordingly. This may help the new figure to feel more comfortable taking over the role and perform at his or her best condition.
In this time of transition, let's just stay together and be strong.
