What doesn't kill you will make you stronger

At this very moment, juniors talk about getting themselves internships while seniors are worried if they can secure a job for themselves – this is the phenomena you will begin to observe when you have been in the academic circle long enough.

The “Future” is what everyone is concerned the most.

Leave the mystery of 2012 aside; what are some of your plans that you have in mind after your graduation? Do you plan to move out of the state, find your dream job, attend grad school, or simply move on with life?

You can choose your future. Right now is the time to ponder about your expectations for life.

A friend of mine once expressed her doubts for setting aspirations for her life because she has been through numerous downhills in life.

Many of us have experienced failures and disappointments. In fact, all humans do undergo this unavoidable feature of life. The fear for failure and disappointment is what usually held students back from setting goals for their lives.

Keep this in mind: What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger.

That is a strong phrase. Every mistake and downfall will lead to greater understanding and effectiveness if taken in a positive perspective.

For instance, if you fail to pass a class, or worse, fail to graduate – take that as a lesson that will help you to avoid similar situation in the future. Take your greatest breakdown and turn that into your strongest stimulus for success.

You say, “I am frustrated over all the disenchantments that have fallen on me.”

If you so choose, every frustration can turn you to be a person of greater patience and strong will for persistence. Never view something from a fixed standpoint. Every circumstance consist multiple angles for judgment. Also, learn the art of Minnesota weather, where the climate of life is always unpredictable.

Though setbacks are unpredictable, know that every contingency has its unique values that you can take away from. There are possibilities in every episode of life.

And then you ask, “How does this relate to my life? I am only 20.”

Well, having the idea that not meeting the benchmark is not the end of the world will help you stay focus. No matter how old you are, you can still keep your eyes on the prize.

Be sure and steadfast. Be bold about your choices and one day you will look back at these days with no regrets.

Because life is filled with endless opportunities and possibilities, you can make the most out of everyday routine. If you have been down for the entire week, take this weekend off and treat yourself a good rest doing something that you really enjoy. And then, start off the new week with a renewed spirit and motivations.

Let what you do today be the springboard to a bright, successful “Future.”

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