I recently posted this quote by Pearl Strachan on my Facebook page: "Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs."
How true.
Apparently there are people who just fail to keep their opinions to themselves. I am addressing the negatives or destructive criticisms that people have on others.
Many a time we all have personal views about someone, something, or some events. We can choose to like or dislike what we see and hear.
Note, I understand there is a given freedom of expression in the country. People are allowed to speak off their minds provided they are speaking the truth.
Yes, I do learn that in my law classes.
However, we must also consider that we can choose to display our expression, or not, even though we may be speaking the truth.
For example, if one does not favor a religion, he or she does not necessarily have to openly "express" their feelings of aversion.
What you think may be right in your law and order; nonetheless, it may not be the same for others who choose to practice their interest.
So what if you were right about something that you have the urge to publicize? Have you tried thinking the other way round if another person does the same towards yourself? How about it?
Humanitarian Dale Carnegie said that "when dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotions."
What made us humane are our individual differences. The one-size-fits-all concept is practically not applicable when it comes to ideologies.
Therefore, take my words, be considerate.
Try to be tolerant to lifestyles that may differ to what you are comfortable with; try to accept different cultures and practices; try to learn from one another. Just try.
Many things in our lives are subjective; so, never say never. Do not be too certain about something before actually experiencing it.
Even if you have experienced it, remember that personal experiences are biased.
Most importantly, think before you act. This will save you from troubles that may cost you a regret of your lifetime.
Take this with you; you may eventually turn out to be a more welcomed friend around the circle of life.
